{"id":11571,"date":"2011-01-17T07:33:24","date_gmt":"2011-01-17T12:33:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/friendburst.com\/blog-new\/11571\/allowed\/"},"modified":"2011-01-17T07:33:24","modified_gmt":"2011-01-17T12:33:24","slug":"allowed","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/friendburst.com\/blog-new\/11571\/allowed\/","title":{"rendered":"You&#8217;re allowed, I am not ?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-family: comic sans ms,sans-serif;color: #000000;font-size: small\">Like I&#8217;ve said (a bunch at this point) ANY social network is a big neighborhood, world-wide I suppose&#8230;so theoretically there&#8217;s room for everybody&#8230;I try to be the best ME I can be, but I don&#8217;t always suceed&#8230;and I try to be the best ME I can be FOR me, so *I* can sleep at night (and I don&#8217;t sleep very well at night) if YOU&#8217;RE not happy with me that&#8217;s mostly your problem&#8230;I will attempt to be flexible, but I make no guarantees&#8230;Like most of you (whether you admit or not) at least some of my friendships (unless there IS such a word as &#8220;acquaintanceships&#8221;) are based on a LACK of intimate knowlege of what makes [somebody] &#8220;tick&#8221;&#8230;For instance, if Gene (who the f**k is Gene? Don&#8217;t worry&#8211;*I* know who he is) and I got to know each other better, I suspect there\u00a0could be trouble; it&#8217;s not likely that *I* would be wearing an NRA cap anytime soon&#8230;and motorcycles scare me&#8230;but we get along fine as far as *I* can tell&#8230;and as it is in the &#8220;real&#8221; world, so it is in cyber-space (finding that out belatedly)<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: comic sans ms,sans-serif;color: #000000;font-size: small\">I (and you should too) DEMAND the right to change my mind about who I like (or don&#8217;t like) and (as with Music perhaps) I also refuse to feel the obligation to explain\u00a0WHY I like (or don&#8217;t like) someone (or some song or singer or group)&#8230;I try not to be judgemental, and for the most part I don&#8217;t think I am&#8230;take RUSH, the band&#8230;I never hated them, but I never liked them either&#8230;now I like some of it (the later stuff) for some reason&#8230;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: comic sans ms,sans-serif;color: #000000;font-size: small\">sorry about all the parentheticals, lots of incorrect usage I suspect&#8211;but I don&#8217;t care&#8230;in fact I&#8217;d like to be able to say if ya do think I&#8217;m an asshole, I don&#8217;t care&#8230;but that wouldn&#8217;t be completely true&#8230;but somehow it\u00a0brings me back to&#8211;it&#8217;s a big neighborhood, if ya don&#8217;t like this part o&#8217; town, steer clear of it&#8230;Have as good a day as you can&#8230;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: comic sans ms,sans-serif;color: #000000;font-size: small\">ADDENDUM&#8211;what Humans need to do IMHO is acknowlege\u00a0our differences and try not to let those differences divide us&#8211;nothing new there, but it ain&#8217;t easy, I know&#8230;just sayin&#8217;&#8230;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: comic sans ms,sans-serif;color: #000000;font-size: small\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Like I&#8217;ve said (a bunch at this point) ANY social network is a big neighborhood, world-wide I suppose&#8230;so theoretically there&#8217;s room for everybody&#8230;I try to be the best ME I can be, but I don&#8217;t always suceed&#8230;and I try to be the best ME I can be FOR me, so *I* can sleep at night [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-11571","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-other"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/friendburst.com\/blog-new\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11571","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/friendburst.com\/blog-new\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/friendburst.com\/blog-new\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/friendburst.com\/blog-new\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=11571"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/friendburst.com\/blog-new\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11571\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/friendburst.com\/blog-new\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=11571"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/friendburst.com\/blog-new\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=11571"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/friendburst.com\/blog-new\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=11571"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}