{"id":23253,"date":"2011-03-15T13:43:19","date_gmt":"2011-03-15T17:43:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/friendburst.com\/blog-new\/23253\/free\/"},"modified":"2011-03-15T13:43:19","modified_gmt":"2011-03-15T17:43:19","slug":"free","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/friendburst.com\/blog-new\/23253\/free\/","title":{"rendered":"Free To Be Me"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Free To Be Me<\/strong><\/span>
\nby Marie T. Russell<\/a><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n


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What a liberating thought \u2014 I am free to be me!<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Think about it… for years you have been molded<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

and pushed to behave in certain ‘acceptable’ ways.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

You have been asked to adhere to tradition, to behave<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

according to certain accepted rules of behavior,<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

and to dress according to the norm. To act like the Jones.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

To make sure you didn’t “paint outside the lines”.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

You have done as you were told, fearing punishment<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

or worse, afraid of not being loved. You have accepted<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

beliefs that others held without question. You agreed<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

with what others said about you — you were smart,<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

stupid, pretty, ugly, etc. You have believed that what<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

others thought was true of you had to be so \u2014<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

that others knew best — that they were smarter or<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

wiser and somehow knew what was good for you.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n


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Yet, if you look within, you know that some of those<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

accepted beliefs are not necessarily your truths.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

They are the truths of those around you.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

For example as a child, you may have been told that<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

you were too noisy, or too playful. Now obviously,<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

if you were behaving in that fashion this was how<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

you wanted to be — that was the real you wanting to<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

express itself. When we were told that we were ‘too’ this<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

or ‘too’ that, we felt that our behavior must be incorrect<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

and adapted ourselves to what was expected of us…<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

and thus lost our spontaneity and joy in the process.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Whose rules are we following now? The ones imposed<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

by our parents? And whose rules were they following?<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Their parents? It goes back for many millennium and<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

has nothing to do with us. Need there be rules at all?<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

If we all were true to our “inner self” or our “higher self”,<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

rules would be unnecessary.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n


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We all have an ingrained sense of right and wrong,<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

of what is loving and what is not, of what is “right”<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

and what is not. It is time to return to trusting ourselves —<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

to trusting that small inner voice, that sense of true joy<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

and spontaneity. We need to free up our true selves<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

by releasing them from the chains and rules of conduct<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

that were imposed on us. We are trustworthy!<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

We can follow our inner wisdom and it will always<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

support us and guide us.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

I am free to be me! This thought, when affirmed regularly,<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

brings freedom. Now the first thing you may notice,<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

as you tell yourself that you are free to be you,<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

are certain fears, doubts, and guilt coming up.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

I remember thinking that the ‘me’ that was inside<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

was not a ‘good’ one \u2014 that I was selfish, unworthy,<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

unlovable, etc. etc. When you look inside yourself,<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

you may discover some similar beliefs \u2014 that if you<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

are truly ‘yourself’ you will be unacceptable to your boss,<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

friends, mate, co-workers, etc. Yet that is simply a<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

figment of your imagination, of your fears,<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

or of someone else’s fears.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n


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The ‘you’ inside is that same innocent, spontaneous<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

child that you were \u2014 the one who was amazed at<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

the beauty of a dandelion flower, or that could find<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

immense joy in splashing around in a mud puddle \u2014<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

that playful being who enjoyed the present and did not<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

concern itself about “proper” and acceptable societal<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

norms (i.e. dirty clothes, weeds on the lawn, ‘proper’<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

attire and behavior, etc.). That spontaneous, natural,<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

and joyful person still resides inside of you. All you need<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

to do is give it permission to ‘come out and play’.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

We can now step forth from behind our masks and take<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

the risk to be real… to express our joys, our fears, our<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

insecurities, our love, our hopes, and our dreams.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

I am free to be me! I can allow myself to be spontaneous.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

I can let myself be real and feel my feelings, express the<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

truth as I see it in the present moment, and let my love<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

for life radiate from my being, expressed in my thoughts,<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

words, and actions.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n


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Trust yourself. You are an innocent, joyful being.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Within you are the seeds of joy, happiness, and<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

success. Affirm: “I am free to be me! I am free to<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

express myself in whatever ways seem loving<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

and true to my inner being. I am free to be me<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

and to create the world I want around me.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

I have the right to express my inner divinity<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

and to live a life of love, joy, and creativity.”<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Trust your instincts. Trust that small inner voice<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

that guides you to the right, loving action.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

That small inner voice is who you really are.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

That terrible person you have imagined yourself<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

to be is a machination of your imagination, fears,<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

and self-doubts. Yes, you have made mistakes…<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

haven’t we all? Yes, you had instances where you<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

were unjust, petty, and did not express loving or<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

peaceful thoughts. Those are nothing more than<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

experiences that you went through — errors in judgment.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Your true inner self is still an innocent, loving being —<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

an angel in physical form. That is who you are.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

You can reclaim it now!<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

You are free to be who you really are!<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

A divine child of the Universe…<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n


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Love & Light,
\n\u2665Angel Love\u2665<\/a><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n


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