{"id":24218,"date":"2011-03-19T14:15:13","date_gmt":"2011-03-19T18:15:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/friendburst.com\/blog-new\/24218\/grow\/"},"modified":"2011-03-19T14:15:13","modified_gmt":"2011-03-19T18:15:13","slug":"grow","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/friendburst.com\/blog-new\/24218\/grow\/","title":{"rendered":"never too old to grow a little"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"color: #000000\"><span style=\"font-size: medium\"><span style=\"font-family: comic sans ms,sans-serif\">Did a show last night with an old friend  &#8230;we did one Thursday, and there&#8217;s one more tonight&#8230;last night&#8217;s show  was better than Thursday&#8217;s IMO even though it meant I worked  harder&#8230;maybe that&#8217;s why I got seven hours sleep last night&#8230;Just  two guys with acoustic guitars; sometimes you don&#8217;t need anymore than  that&#8230;the Thursday night show was a bit of a sonic nightmare, I  thought&#8230;the Bass and keyboards may have been unecessary&#8230;I think the  more cars a train has, the more likely there will be a train wreck&#8230;the  last time we did any gigs together was about 6 years ago&#8230;I&#8217;ve grown a  little since then&#8230;I&#8217;ve since realized that maybe I was put here to be  a Musical co-pilot&#8230;I may have had aspirations to be the pilot, but at  some point I realized that I wasn&#8217;t quite cut out for that&#8230;I&#8217;ve been  onstage alone with just my guitar&#8230;and hated it&#8230;now I wonder why I  ever did it in the first place&#8211;the needy ego? Maybe&#8230;but now I know  better&#8230;after the gig was over, I kept coming back to how good Ray and I  had been&#8211;with NO rehearsal, although I&#8217;m starting to feel as though  the Thursday night gig WAS a rehearsal\u00a0 ha ha\u00a0 &#8230;To some degree, I was  kinda bummed that, although the audience seemed to like us last night,  they had no idea that what they saw was two guys doing only their 2nd  gig (no rehearsal) in about 6 years, NOT some well-honed tight  professional hard working duo&#8230;maybe that&#8217;s part of the dilemma of  being a performer&#8211;to appear to have yer act together even when ya  don&#8217;t&#8230;normally I would take a more honest approach (&#8220;Yes folks, that  was a boo boo&#8221;) but not everyone thinks the way I do, and I&#8217;m not in  charge&#8230;But I had fun, and I even made a few bucks&#8230;<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000\"><span style=\"font-size: medium\"><span style=\"font-family: comic sans ms,sans-serif\">in other Musical news, a friend of mine is about to release her  album&#8230;I did LOTS of work on it, but most of that work ended up not  being used in the final mix&#8230;and I swear on my Mother&#8217;s grave that&#8217;s  OK, but looking back I think I woulda preferred that the Producer be  honest with me, and\/or more communicative&#8230;NOBODY, including me, ever  said &#8220;Where&#8217;s the guitar solo go?&#8221;&#8230;There&#8217;s a fair amount of  &#8220;punctuation&#8221; or &#8220;noodling&#8221; going on but I don&#8217;t think there are any  solos&#8230;and again, that&#8217;s OK, it&#8217;s not my album&#8230;her vocal parts are  awesome, *I* didn&#8217;t know she had those in her head&#8230;I guess as relaxed  as I thought I was, the studio is still a rather intimidating place for  me&#8230;but put me onstage without a net and I&#8217;m fine&#8230;<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000\"><span style=\"font-size: medium\"><span style=\"font-family: comic sans ms,sans-serif\">it&#8217;s a beautiful day, I should be out and about, but I&#8217;m trying to  preserve my energy for tonight&#8217;s gig&#8230;still, Life is Good, and for that  I&#8217;m grateful&#8230;<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Did a show last night with an old friend &#8230;we did one Thursday, and there&#8217;s one more tonight&#8230;last night&#8217;s show was better than Thursday&#8217;s IMO even though it meant I worked harder&#8230;maybe that&#8217;s why I got seven hours sleep last night&#8230;Just two guys with acoustic guitars; sometimes you don&#8217;t need anymore than that&#8230;the Thursday night [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[10,8],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-24218","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-life","category-music"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/friendburst.com\/blog-new\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/24218","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/friendburst.com\/blog-new\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/friendburst.com\/blog-new\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/friendburst.com\/blog-new\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=24218"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/friendburst.com\/blog-new\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/24218\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/friendburst.com\/blog-new\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=24218"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/friendburst.com\/blog-new\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=24218"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/friendburst.com\/blog-new\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=24218"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}