{"id":46014,"date":"2011-06-22T00:06:40","date_gmt":"2011-06-22T04:06:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/friendburst.com\/blog-new\/46014\/weigh-much\/"},"modified":"2011-06-22T00:06:40","modified_gmt":"2011-06-22T04:06:40","slug":"weigh-much","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/friendburst.com\/blog-new\/46014\/weigh-much\/","title":{"rendered":"but it doesn&#8217;t weigh much&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><font color=\"#000000\"><font size=\"4\"><font face=\"comic sans ms,sans-serif\">it&#8217;s un-healthy to carry a grudge I know&#8230;but this one doesn&#8217;t weigh much&#8230;on the other hand, how can I expect anyone to let go of the grudge they&#8217;re holding against ME if I&#8217;m carrying one myself? I went to an open mic near my house, after having spent the evening at one that was NOT near my house&#8211;Lou and I did good (in Damascus) and I had some fun&#8230;then I went to this other place&#8230;the guy who called me an asshole awhile back was there; I saw him, turned and left&#8230;*I* think he was drunk that night, but I don&#8217;t think that&#8217;s a good reason to do dumbass stuff that ya could end up apologizing for later&#8230;although that IS how some people go thru Life&#8230;He seemed to be drunk again tonight and he adamantly accused me of lying&#8230;He aggressively denied ever calling me an asshole&#8230;His apology went something like &#8220;If I did anything to offend you I&#8217;m sorry, but I don&#8217;t think I&#8217;ve ever done any such thing&#8230;&#8221; Yeah, that sounds like remorse&#8230;I suppose I can be or have been an asshole but not because I don&#8217;t want some mediocre ego-starved Musician playing behind me, THAT doesn&#8217;t make me an asshole&#8230;on the OTHER FB, a woman (a delusional psycho-dingbat) accused me by name of something I DID NOT do&#8230;she keeps putting the same vids up (a group of Musicians playing certain Dylan songs) only suddenly she thinks she&#8217;s discovered evidence of ME sabotaging HER performance&#8230;lotsa folks came to my defense&#8230;but if she wants to play rough, I&#8217;ll put a certain youTube video (which she herself posted) on Facebook&#8230;trust me, it&#8217;s fuckin&#8217; horrible, no one in their right mind would put this video on the Internet&#8230;but she did&#8230;getting back to grudges, another FB user has yet to &#8220;friend&#8221; me, she&#8217;s apparently still carrying a grudge over something I said or did back in about 1983 or so&#8211;*I* can&#8217;t remember wtf it was&#8230;so, it&#8217;s been an innaresting day for sure, but I&#8217;m still here&#8230;<\/font><\/font><\/font><\/p>\n<p><font color=\"#000000\"><font size=\"4\"><font face=\"comic sans ms,sans-serif\">UPDATE&#8211;decided to let the whack job keep running HER mouth, she&#8217;ll just dig a deeper hole for herself&#8230;I&#8217;m done with it&#8230;<br \/>\n<\/font><\/font><\/font><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>it&#8217;s un-healthy to carry a grudge I know&#8230;but this one doesn&#8217;t weigh much&#8230;on the other hand, how can I expect anyone to let go of the grudge they&#8217;re holding against ME if I&#8217;m carrying one myself? I went to an open mic near my house, after having spent the evening at one that was NOT [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[10,8],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-46014","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-life","category-music"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/friendburst.com\/blog-new\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/46014","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/friendburst.com\/blog-new\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/friendburst.com\/blog-new\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/friendburst.com\/blog-new\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=46014"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/friendburst.com\/blog-new\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/46014\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/friendburst.com\/blog-new\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=46014"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/friendburst.com\/blog-new\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=46014"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/friendburst.com\/blog-new\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=46014"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}