theoretically…
…if I had a girlfriend (if they’re still called that) what would she be like? Well, I think she’d be a woman not a girl, because after all I’m well on my way to being an ol’ geezer…do I know any unmarried women approximately my age that I would have a relationship with? Possibly…Would I have sex with a woman my age? THAT’S another question I’m ashamed to say…and before I forget, looks don’t matter all that much–especially ‘cos I look like this…Compatibility is #1 with me I think…I CAN be somewhat flexible, but for the most part I’m not an “outdoorsy” kind of guy…Smoking and drinking are a turn off for me, but I can tolerate some drinking…she should certainly be politically compatible, or at least very tolerant of people who don’t share her views…Musical compatibility is fairly HUGE with me, but again, I can be somewhat flexible…why am I even discussing all this? Boredom mostly…I seem to have the uncanny ability to become infatuated with women who are already married…it’s a long list…I’m not obsessing over all this, I don’t think; it’s just that I might be making a new friend on the OTHER FB and I gotta wonder if she and I could theoretically become more than friends…and if not, then I’ve lost nothing, right?
If I had a girlfriend, or a boyfriend for that matter, he or she would almost certainly have major psychological issues. I can’t imagine any normal person being able to stand me. 😛
I think all relationships are based on how well the Stockholm-syndrome kicked in. 😆
I think you are putting too many restrictions on the relationship before it even gets going good. Yeah, ya gotta be compatible, but as long as the feeling is there, then there is room for give and take. Avant still loves me even though I have never owned a Beatles album in my whole life. Oops he asked me not to tell people that.
First of all let me mention to Stormy, I didn’t know there was anyone that didn’t own a Beatle Album….but I love you anyway.lol….Now the blog…It sounds to me like you have the right idea about what would make you happy, and I think what really matters is that you have fun…Notice I don’t use the words “that it works out”….because if it does…it does and if not you have had fun…..this comes from someone that sits home all the time…but I live in a small town that has no where to go and nothing to do….and no one to go with….if you know the tune!! But just be yourself…have fun and the rest will be easy….and maybe one day if a great guy falls out of the sky….I will go have fun too!! :O)
because I’m a Man, I’m somewhat in the dark as to the meaning of the comment…ignorance is not always bliss…