but it doesn’t weigh much…

it’s un-healthy to carry a grudge I know…but this one doesn’t weigh much…on the other hand, how can I expect anyone to let go of the grudge they’re holding against ME if I’m carrying one myself? I went to an open mic near my house, after having spent the evening at one that was NOT near my house–Lou and I did good (in Damascus) and I had some fun…then I went to this other place…the guy who called me an asshole awhile back was there; I saw him, turned and left…*I* think he was drunk that night, but I don’t think that’s a good reason to do dumbass stuff that ya could end up apologizing for later…although that IS how some people go thru Life…He seemed to be drunk again tonight and he adamantly accused me of lying…He aggressively denied ever calling me an asshole…His apology went something like “If I did anything to offend you I’m sorry, but I don’t think I’ve ever done any such thing…” Yeah, that sounds like remorse…I suppose I can be or have been an asshole but not because I don’t want some mediocre ego-starved Musician playing behind me, THAT doesn’t make me an asshole…on the OTHER FB, a woman (a delusional psycho-dingbat) accused me by name of something I DID NOT do…she keeps putting the same vids up (a group of Musicians playing certain Dylan songs) only suddenly she thinks she’s discovered evidence of ME sabotaging HER performance…lotsa folks came to my defense…but if she wants to play rough, I’ll put a certain youTube video (which she herself posted) on Facebook…trust me, it’s fuckin’ horrible, no one in their right mind would put this video on the Internet…but she did…getting back to grudges, another FB user has yet to “friend” me, she’s apparently still carrying a grudge over something I said or did back in about 1983 or so–*I* can’t remember wtf it was…so, it’s been an innaresting day for sure, but I’m still here…

UPDATE–decided to let the whack job keep running HER mouth, she’ll just dig a deeper hole for herself…I’m done with it…

4 Comments

  • samsly says:

    Amen.. said so well. :love:

  • annanicolesmith says:

    Yeah I go through minor grudges most days at work and I battle within myself to find a way to “let go”…otherwise I go homhttp://www.friendburst.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_rolleyes.gife and feel miserable

  • annanicolesmith says:

    Yeah I go through minor grudges most days at work and I battle within myself to find a way to “let go”…otherwise I go home and feel miserable. F*n smilies suck, they NEVER work for me in blogs :((

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