Forgiveness is something many of us think we practice, only later to discover that we still feel angry, upset or hurt about the situation. We claim that all is forgiven so that we may keep the peace and ease or comfort the other person without really taking the time to heal ourselves. The truth about forgiveness is that it actually has very little to do with anyone but you.
This about love and attachment is very tricky for My beloved children. Any condition you make reveals attachment. Any outcome you desire and insist on comes from attachment. Have the desire and let go of it at the same time. Love will free others from having to fulfill your needs and wants.
Holding onto regret is like dragging the weight of the past
with us everywhere we go. It drains our energy, leaving less
available for life in the present because we are constantly
feeding an old issue. This attachment can cause illness
the same way watering a dead plant creates decay.
